TIME IS ALWAYS ON THE TRUTH'S SIDE

  

TIME IS ALWAYS ON THE TRUTH'S SIDE

"I can't keep this inside me!" said Sena. She was tired of the situation she had been living for days. Endless arguments and tensions at work looked like the throne fights in history. She often dreamed of quitting her job and settling in the Aegean. Of course, on Monday, she was entering the bridge traffic and going to work with unfulfilled dreams. She had learned how to manage people to some extent. She didn't care about what was said like before, she was doing her job and going home. She didn't get too friendly with anyone and didn't get into arguments. But she had a manager and a few friends who were obsessed with her at work.

She could keep silent about many unpleasant behaviours. The only time she could not remain silent was when she was treated unfairly. She was taught like this, 'Always stand up for your rights, don't be a loser! Otherwise, they will hurt you a lot." These were sentence patterns embedded in her mind. It must be because of their influence, she was infuriated when she witnessed the slightest injustice. It was such a day again, a day full of busy work and tensions, a day she prayed for it to end quickly... Everyone was running around in a hurry, the photocopier was working non-stop, one coffee was going and another was coming. People couldn't hear each other clearly because of the hum of voices. Even though Sena's patience and endurance were over, the work was endless. Just as she was going to her room for a little rest, her manager came. It could be observed from her behaviour that she was not very calm. She turned towards Sena and said, "The files that should have been finished last week are not finished! What irresponsibility! All of you are completely negligent. You are doing work in a sloppy manner. At this pace, I'm going to fire all of you one by one!" she said. The atmosphere was frozen, no one spoke, as if the air had solidified and time had stopped. How could the work they had been working on all week be unfinished? It had been left on her desk two days ago. 'Maybe she hasn't seen the file yet, maybe it's lost,' she thought. Even these were no longer important. She had no strength left to endure this style and behaviour. It was not acceptable to constantly generalise the situation as if they were not working at all and to criticise someone in public was not acceptable. She was always looking for a place to accuse someone, she had made a habit of it. Sena would respond every time, making long explanations. She would listen with a grimace as if she was expecting this and go away complaining. What should she have done, she should have told her that this situation decreased everyone's morale and motivation. How many times had she told her in moments of argument, but it did nothing but increase the tension. When she tried to talk in private, she always cut her off and sent her out of the room with rote sentences.

This time Sena was determined, she would react differently than usual and handle this incident in a different way. She decided to keep quiet, to keep silent as the manager spoke, not to make any explanations. What was happening when she spoke? Wasn't what she wanted anyway was for someone to make a begging speech and satisfy her ego? She kept silent, she did not answer at all. On the one hand she was making a silent protest, on the other hand she was thinking whether she could afford to lose her job. In the end, she decided that it was a better choice for her to do what was necessary and accept the result rather than working like this.

Sena never answered, the longer she kept silent, the madder she got. At one point she said, "The files have been sent to you." She was too angry to hear it. Her sentences became more bizarre. She didn't know what she was doing either. At last a friend of hers came in and the scene fell into a deep silence. She took her to her room, and after closing the door, the sounds of arguing continued for a while. No one had the energy to return to work. Some started to focus on their phones, some went to get coffee.

Sena felt a strange sense of relief. "When I talked to her, people thought I was guilty too. My name had turned into Lawyer Sena. I had become someone who constantly defended things and had to get into arguments. Now I was going through a Breakthrough and something inside me says that I made the right decision."

Days passed, the file issue was forgotten and other work took its place. One busy day the manager of the company came with a sudden request for a meeting. This happened on very rare occasions. Everyone went to the meeting room in curiosity, packing their belongings. It was obvious that he was going to give new news, but no one knew what it was. After a short speech, he said that the group manager was aware of what he had done to the employees so far and that he had been dismissed. This news left a cold shower effect on everyone. A sense of curiosity mixed with joy appeared in their minds. What had happened that they had been waiting for a long time and now it had happened?

The Experiential Design Teaching says: 'Time is on the side of the truth'.

Whatever happens, it will come out sooner or later. If the person believes this and does his/her best and does his/her part and does not try to be right in that process, the events turn in his/her favour. While it is enough to say the reality of the event in a few sentences, when one goes on the defence, one actually loses power. Since time has the characteristic of revealing the truth, the truth will eventually be revealed.

Hoping to be on the side of truth and patient at the right time...

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Experiential Design Teaching is the knowledge of reality that enables people to design their future through past experiences. It offers individuals strategies they need in order to solve their problems and achieve their goals.

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 Yahya Hamurcu



6 Yorumlar

  1. When we keep silent and concentrate on our goals, we rise even people try to make us fail...

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  2. Ayşe Budak16.04.2025 16:56

    Gerçek er ya da geç gerçekleşir 💐

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  3. Time truly stands with the truth. No matter what has been experienced, it eventually comes to light.
    Wishing to be on the side of truth, at the right time, and with patience…
    God willing, dear Author. Thank you, and bless your efforts.🌷

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  4. Time is on the side of the truth

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  5. A very meaningful article, I wish we could understand it in detail...

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  6. Büşra S.D30.04.2025 12:27

    Waiting for right time is a good choice

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